Friday, December 28, 2007

Thank you so much for sharing your Christmas with mom and me Cindi, Bobby and Jeff. Your pictures and videos mean so much to us. I will be posting some of the pictures of the Hillman's visit in a few days.
Love Dad

Wednesday, December 26, 2007






Thanks Gma

Santa has been hiding the last big gift and makes it a treasure hunt since Nathan and Bobby were young.

Saturday, December 22, 2007





We picked up the kids at Barstow on beautiful clear day. The sky was a clear pale blue and the snow topped mountains stood out in startling relief. Not a cloud in the sky. We got started by 8 am so both going and returning was smooth and fast. By noon the people trying to get to Las Vegas were backed up for miles and miles. Great trip!
When we got home the kids were tiered and antsy and so it was imperative that we get them across the street to the park. So here are pictures of Emma, Grace and Lizzie at the park


Oh how wonderful to see you! Grandma and Grandpa.Now we can go play with out the kids.YEA!!!
Chris think of it 24---- hours of freedom--- What can we do? Dha we will think of something Jules.


This is the time of year when many of you send out Christmas cards with beautiful pictures and wonderful messages of Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!... but, I'm not one of you, sorry to say. However, I do give and get a few cards from family and close friends, which I enjoy. The attached pictures are of one that I received last night from a good friend, Lois. She and I used to drive school buses together; she still does, while I only have one job now - Yippee!

Anyway, she always gets me the funniest cards for all occations; they make me laugh right out loud and this one was no exception. As I'm walking across a crowded shopping mall parking lot, I take it out of my purse and open it up. Just envision me laughing right out loud - uproariously!! It was wonderful, and I'm sure many people were looking at me wondering but all I know is that it's so great to laugh like that every once in a while and to laugh at ourselves is often the best medicine for anything that might ail us. And sometimes it's tough to keep the humor in many of the situations we experience during the Holiday Season; from the crowded malls to the crowded freeways!!

It is my hope that all of you are able to enjoy the holidays and are able to keep a smile on your face, and warm thoughts and feelings in your hearts and humor in your souls. I know that if we remember the true meaning of this time of year, and think about whose birth we are celebrating, it will be easy.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
Love you all,
Cassy

Monday, December 17, 2007

SO sorry to the mother of the cutest little blond kids EVER, that this is a day late. BUT I did remember.....

happy 29th birthday!!!!!!!

Hope you had a great day and that your silly husband did SOMETHING nice for you!

keep smiling
cindi

Sunday, December 16, 2007


The house up on the corner were the Noble's used to live has a fantastic Christmas/Santa lights in the front yard and on the roof. When Milena was here we stopped and she couldn't figure out what to look at first. Santa his sleigh and reindeer on the roof, the music synchronized lights on three trees or all the other things. Last Thursday they had the fire truck come and bring Santa. To get a picture with Santa you just had to bring a toy. Marie and I did - so here is our picture with Santa 2007. You were also invited inside the house, WOW their whole living room the size of ours was 100% full of a miniature village set on plywood that sloped down from about 6 ft at the far wall to 4 ft about where our tile entry way lets you go back to the rest of the house. It was completely landscaped. In the rest of the hose there were several lighted trees and moving Santa's. A totally amazing display of Christmas Spirit.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Sorry Jeff, but I realized I'm lost and totally out of the loop!! I went back to read previous posts to see who the nonmember girl was you were dating and I think her name was Jessie. So can you give a quick run down of how you met Whitni - I'll assume SOCCER!!! And tell us more about her!

We're hanging in there in the pre-Christmas rush. I dread December every year and the stress of what Christmas is 'supposed' to be like, full of annual traditions that I can never keep up with and have given up trying to, brings me to a halt. I don't come out of my blue funk until January! We finally got a Christmas tree today and will decorate it tomorrow. The kids decorated the house the other day, hanging up Christmas decorations or setting them out wherever they could - we don't have much along the lines of decorations. Today we painted pinecones green and then sprinkled glitter on them to make them look like little Christmas trees. There was so much glitter that Patrice thought they looked rather gaudy, but the kids thought they were pretty.
I'll have you know that I got the glitter out of my Gramma Ginn stash from the hobby shop - so you could say we used antique glitter of 50+ years. I always LOVE using stuff I have from the hobby shop - I have several shoe boxes full of stuff. There are things I come across that I don't know how to use, or don't know how they were meant to be used, and wish I could ask Gramma about it. I like seeing her handwriting on the little boxes - and the old price tags!

On the church front, Patrice was released as Elders Quorum Pres a few weeks ago so we've enjoyed having him home the last few Sunday evenings - he used to have meetings. He's now the new Institute teacher so although our Sundays are calmer our Friday nights are more hectic. We have our seminary class (I'm not teacher) Friday nights at 6pm and then our YM/YW activities at 7pm. It seems to be the only time we can get the youth together. It's not so bad because they don't have school in the morning. But now Patrice teaches Institute Friday at 7pm while I'm with the YW so we go as a family. We bring a video and the kids lay down in the next room and watch a video while we are in our respective activities. So far so good. The kids get their weekly dose of a movie. They've been pretty calm. The only problem is they don't eat enough before leaving at 6:30 and then they're hungry when we get home at 9. I'll have to work on the organization there - make a snack for them or something. We're still ironing out the wrinkles as we've only done it twice so far.

Patrice conceded to letting me go to a multi-stake youth conference Dec 26-29. The only hitch is that I have to find a ride to the stake center (over an hour away) because the bus leaves at 7:30 AM! That was Patrice's one condition - we only have one car and he didn't want to do that drive with the kids, etc. I totally understand, I wouldn't want to do it either! I went to a youth camp in the summer and it was interesting to see how the French run things (or don't!). I hate to admit, but I wanted to go to the youth conference to see what it would be like. It's 4 stakes, Nancy, Lyon,(French) Geneva, Lausanne (Swiss) and is to be held on 'Black Lake' in Switzerland. The timing is poor as lots of people vacation during the holidays or have other commitments with family. But it's so hard to find time during the school year that the youth are available, and come summer everything shuts down because everyone is gone on vacation. Big problem here, drives me crazy. Anyway, we have 25 youth going and about 9 leaders. One of the leaders going is a sister I met this summer at the youth camp. She's a riot and we had a lot of laughs so it'll be fun to see her again. I realized at the youth camp that I am rarely around people that don't speak at least a little English and that although I live in a French speaking area, most people aren't French (or anything near it!). It's a total melting pot - French is just how we communicate. So it was fun to spend a few days of real, total French immersion. I'm assuming the youth conference will be the same so I'm looking forward to it.

I think that's about it for the moment. Let's see if I don't have a few pictures I can add.


Guillaume took some pictures out of our front window last week for an art project. The front of our house is almost one big window with a little balcony in front of it (just enough room to walk out and clean the windows). This was Alienor as she left to go back to school after lunch. Yes, she comes home on the bus everyday for lunch and has to go back for afternoon classes on MWF. Notice the nice weather. This is why I love our house - because it has LOTS of windows.

This is looking left out the window, up the hill. The wall is actually the wall in front of our neighbors house.
The driveway on the left of the wall is the neighbor's and on the right is ours. This street, although it might look like a small road, is actually the main road through town. We see EVERYTHING pass in front of our house, from tractors with cows to semis, gas tanker trucks, moving vans, etc.
Our driveway is two cars wide and then here are these trees. Patrice likes the yellow one but there are definitely a few, including the HORRIBLE 8 foot wide hedge on the right, that I dream about taking a chainsaw to!
Here's the walkway that leads from the sidewalk up to the house. It's deceiving because the door is not at the end of the path but around under the car port/garage area. The path was done in pentagon pavers but we pulled them up because roots were growing in them. Of course other projects have come up and we haven't decided what to do with this. From the front, we have a total white trash house as we like to call it. It needs major landscaping work. That little dark green tree is kind of cute and is right next to the mailbox.

Oh, about the guy that lives in this house opposite us. It's a little old man that reminds me of Grampa with a European twist. He has white hair combed forward and wears a dark beret with pants like Grampa used to wear. He keeps his yard looking much better than ours and putters around fixing stuff. I have to admit we don't do more that wave at each other so sometime I'll have to hide and take a picture of him!

Well, I hope you have a happy weekend.

Jocelyn

Well since you have all sked...I will tell...

I have taken Whitni on two dates. Her bed time is generally between 9:30 and 10:30. She powered through both nights until 1am. Because of her chronic fatigue, she has to go to sleep at a decent hour so this was a stretch for her. The two dates could not have gone any better.

Date 1) I took her to a favorite restraunt of mine, Buffalo Wild Wings. We are both pretty competitive so I decided to go there because they have games on the t.v. screen, quizz games, texas hold'em, etc. SO we ate and sat there and talked and laughed and talked trash for about two hours. It was fun. We went to a movie theatre and the movie we both wanted to se was not playing for another 90 minutes. So we went to the nearest grocey store, purchased some cards and played speed for an hour. I kissed her at some point during the card games...now let me explain, Whitni is always on the top of her game at everything, she is always confident and does not get rattled...so it was fun to see her flustered and speachless...see mom, the 200 girls i kissed prior to Whitni is paying off ;) So we laughed about it because i was her 7th and she was really scared to kiss me because she thought she would suck...and she did...but the last two days she has improved ;) O.K. so we saw the movie AUGUST RUSH, we were one of two couples in the place, we had the seats with no arm rests and we just snuggled the entire movie. We liked the movie a lot by the way. And no we did not sit there and make out the entire time, it was a real good movie to take her to for the first date. We were pretty comfortable with one another. I took her back to her car (cant take her to the dorms so we drove and met somewhere) and i kissed her goodnight and my kiss led in to her not letting me go for a long time. ANYWAY, she called me when she woke up the next day and said, "did last night really happen?"

Date 2) We met and I took her to a real nice restraunt, another of my favorite, the place makes their own root beer and like moms spaghetti sauce it has tons of sugar in it, so it is really, really good. Anyway, she looked amazing, we played dress up because we were going to a play. SO we were dressed up, looking mature and sophisticated (i know it is hard to believe) and we just had a great time enjoying one anothers company and being, as Virginia would say, "dolled up." So we went to the omaha playhouse and watched "A CHRISTMAS CAROL." It was avery well done and extemly detailed. Did I mention that Whitni just looked gorgeous!?! When we came out of the theatre there was about 1-2 inches of fresh snow on the ground. It had not snowed for a few days so it was pretty...until we hit the roads...FYI, I love 4wheel drive :) So we were driving home and as we exited down the ramp a car spun out in front of us, i pulled over and before I knew it i was ankle deep in mud, my dress clothes were muddy...I stopped and helped get the guy out of the hole he was in. It was a chore but it was a great story and whitni took the time to clean me up, as i had dirt on my face and hair from when the wheels were spinning. We finally got to her car and sat in the truck (wink wink) while it was warming up.

Im trying to be REAL level headed, but i feel like the feelings I have had for her over the last 11 months were confirmed and that she is starting to be less afraid of having a real relationship that has a purpose and a future.

I will hang out with her for a few hours this evening, then tomorrow at church and after church. Then i wont see her until December 26th where she will be in Utah (her grandma lives in Sandy) to spend time with me while I am at Bobbys. I will keep you all updated on the "single guys" life. All being said and done, the last two days have been worth the wait and I am happy that she is seeing that I can make her happy.

I love you all!

Friday, December 14, 2007

YES!
WE ALL WANT TO KNOW!!!
How was "THE DATE"?

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

LOVE IT JEFF!!!!
Non-Crappy Starring You! eCards on JibJab

Sunday, December 09, 2007

JOKE FROM KEN VIRGIN.

2 LADIES STANDING AT ST PETS GATE WAITING TO GET IN----
ONE IS KATHY THE OTHER IS ANN
KATHY SAYS TO ANN HOW DID YOU DIE?
ANN REPLIES I FROZE
KATHY OOOH THAT MUST HAVE BEEN AWFUL
ANN NOT REALLY I SHIVERED, GOT COLD AND THEN I WAS WARM AND WENT TO SLEEP.
HOW DID YOU DIE KATHY? I HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK.
I THOUGHT MY HUSBAND WAS CHEATING ON ME. SO I CAME HOME EARLY TO CATCH HIM. WHEN I GOT HOME HE WAS SITTING ON THE COUCH READING A PAPER. I WASN'T CONVINCED. SO I RAN UPSTAIRS AND SEARCHED, THEN IN TO THE ATTIC, THEN RAN DOWN TO THE BASEMENT LOOKING EVERYWHERE.. ON THE WAY UP THE STAIRS I HAD THE HEAT ATTACK!

ANN too bad you didn't check the freezer!!!!! It would have save us both a lot of trouble!!!!!!!!




The next day, Wednesday Marie and I took MILENA to the park across the street. It was the regular routine at the park swinging, sliding and crawling but at 18 months she loved it and so did we. That afternoon Bobby and she left for Utah, I went to work and Marie was home from work. It was a fun time to spend with Milena and Bobby. Oh, you wonder why I capitalized Milenas' name. It was so I could learn and remember how to spell it and maybe to help you too.







Bobby had a meeting in San Diego on Tuesday the 4th of Dec 07 and he brought a little surprise with him MILENA I was so excited to see her. We really bonded when I was recovering from my broken hip.
The first picture is what I saw when I got home from work. Marie on the floor playing with MILENA.
The second picture is me feeding MILENA or watching 0 she is a very good eater. The third picture is me holding MILENA after breakfast. We spent the morning playing because I was all alone with her. Only had one diaper change and it was not bad so escaped that opportunity!

Really appreciate the posting. Thank you all! (where is Marion's?)
Any way doing a little catching up. None of our family was here for
Thanksgiving so Shan was kind enough to invite us over to share the afternoon and the meal with her folks - Sandy and Margaret- We all ate too much but it was so good!

Friday, December 07, 2007


Hi All!
This is the whole gang at Disney Paris during my recent visit with Jocelyn and the family over the Thanksgiving Holiday. Also, since Jocelyn was good enough to post some pics, I thought I could add some narrative about each one, so here goes:


1. This is a photo-op location at the entrance to Main Street Disneyland. Jocelyn thought maybe this would be a good one for Christmas!


2. This is me, Grandma Cass getting special love and hugs from Guillaume in the hotel room the morning I was leaving. He's my real 'lovey-dovey-huggy' grandson and it shows! Love you Guillaumeee-nomee!


3. This is me and the kids squeezed into the back of the car at the hotel the morning I left for home. It was a real tight squeeze too - trying to get all of my bags and everyone else's stuff in the car for the ride to the airport and home to Luxembourg for the rest of the family was quite a feat and had everyone laughing!!


4. Giving and getting goodbye hugs and kisses at the airport. It's always so hard for me to leave everyone. To know it will such a long time before I see them again, but I guess that's part of life when everyone lives so far away. I'm so thankful for computers, the internet and all the wonderful technology we have now to keep in touch!


5. Margot and Grandma Cass on the Buzz Lightyear ride at Disneyland. We have our laser guns aimed and are firing away at any and all targets we can. We went on this ride 2 times, the kids really like it and it gave us all another time to 'best' our personal scores!!


6. Here is Jocelyn, the kids and me waiting to drive the little cars - always a favorite of the kids! It was always a favorite of mine when I was little too! Oh, gosh, when I look at this picture, look how much I have shrunk!! Even with my spiked hair, I really look short next to Jocelyn - I guess it's just part of getting old!!


7. Oh, no - it's Margot behind the wheel - giving it all she's got!! Grandma Cass has the 'pedal to the metal.' It's so much fun for grandparents to watch their grandchildren experience all those 'new' things - and driving for Margot, sure is a 'new thing.'


8. Perceval enjoying the carousel in Fantasyland. I was running off trying to find the bathroom - yikes!!!


9. This was another photo op - That's 'Lumiere' from Beauty and the Beast with all the little Duffort 'beauties and beasts' gathered round!


10. Family photo at Guillaume Andre Duffort's baptism day - November 18th, 2007. Guillaume's in his 'grown up - just like Dad' suit. Now, he really likes to go to Church, all dressed up like the big guys!! I think he's going to enjoy really nice clothes, just like his Dad!!


11. Photo of the entire family: Bottom row, the Duffort children, left to right, Margot, Perceval, Guillaume and Alienor. Next row up, Bernadette, Patrice's mom, Me, Jocelyn, Patrice and Remi, Patrice's dad.


12. Guillaume at home with his 'Pineapple Upside Down' birthday cake and candles. Cake and ice cream was eaten, presents were opened and a good time was had by all!!


13. Last but not least, (even though it sideways) was Thanksgiving Dinner at the Duffort's. Jocelyn was really good to me, cooking a turkey, mashed potatoes, real candied yams and green bean casserole. What a wonder feast for me and the whole family!! What more could I ask for?? Homemade pumpkin tart for dessert - YUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!

That's all folks!!

Take care and love,

Cassy / Grandma Cass

Thursday, December 06, 2007


Happy Saint Nicolas! Dec 6 is the day that Saint Nicolas passes by and leaves gifts for the kids. Here in Luxembourg, it's the day that people exchange gifts, not Christmas. Normally we don't celebrate it, too bad, so sad, but this year I gave them a little bag full of little games that Gramma had left behind for stocking stuffers at Christmas. They were totally excited and didn't even really realize why they were getting gifts.













Random recent pictures - sorry, don't have time to write about them!

Monday, December 03, 2007

HAPPY 38TH BIRTHDAY
PATRICE!!
HOPE YOU ENJOY A GREAT DAY!
GET LOTS OF HUGS AND KISSES
FROM ALL THOSE KIDS AND JOCELYN TOO!
THANKS FOR A WONDERFUL TIME
DURING MY LATEST VISIT!!
EURO DISNEY WAS A BLAST!!
LOVE YOU LOTS, CASS

Sunday, December 02, 2007

THANK YOU BOBBY!
MOM LOVES THE VIDEOS.
THEY ARE ALWAYS WELCOME.

Saturday, December 01, 2007

Dad scared this out of me with his last BLOG!!
BOO!
JUST TRYING TO SCARE UP
SOMETHING.

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